Dumped by SMS? Join Federline club

New York: ‘Ur dumped’, Kevin Federline - and you are now part of a growing club of spurned lovers who have been ditched by text message.

A video of Britney Spears' soon-to-be ex-husband apparently getting a text message informing him that the pop princess had filed for divorce became the most viewed item on the YouTube Internet site on Thursday, with more than 1 million hits.

The web video shows Federline taping a reality television show and talking about Britney being his biggest fan - until he gets a text message.

Then he puts his head in his hands, rips off his microphone and disappears, returning 30 minutes later visibly upset.

Britney abruptly filed for divorce from fledgling rapper Federline this week after two years of marriage and two children while he was filming in Canada.

Experts on cell phone and text message use and etiquette said Federline was not the first to be dumped by text - and certainly would not be the last with rising numbers of teenagers and 20-somethings using text to avoid confrontation.

"People in their teens and 20s feel more comfortable using a text message to communicate something serious than having to confront someone," said Chief Executive of online wireless retailer LetsTalk.com, which researches phone use, Delly Tamer.

"It is instant gratification - and delayed mortification. At some point they will have to yell at each other," Tamer added.

A survey carried out by Swiss messaging services provider Sicap two years ago found that nine per cent of mobile phone users admitted to having dumped a boyfriend or girlfriend by sending a text message.

A survey last October by Macquarie University in Australia found 100 people aged 18 to 35 used text messaging more when relationships began or were in a rocky patch.

Few YouTube viewers seemed to have much sympathy for Federline although some acknowledged it was tough for the break-up to be so public.