First get to know him, if you have any common friends, ask them to introduce you to him. If you don't have any then you make the first move. Go ahead, try to strike up a conversation with him. Drop something in front of him, notebook, pen, anything. if he picks it up for you then he is willing to talk to you. You have to like other people if you want to be likeable. Show genuine interest in them. Be curious to know what they find exciting. You can ask them questions to know more about them.
Find out if he is on any social networking site. Sometimes it is more comfortable to talk online than face to face.
Find out his interests, it helps if you have lot of things in common. Which is his favourite basketball team, does he like reading books etc. etc. If he is on any social networking site then you can easily check out his info.
If the guy is in your school then it would be much more easier.
Say 'hello' to him whenever he passes you in the corridors, smile at him.
Be confident and always try to look your best.
If the guy is in your class try to get a seat next to him. You can ask him to help you with some homework, if he agrees, that's a good sign, that means he is interested in you.
Ask him and his friends for your party. Or invite them for a movie, talk to him whenever you get a chance, but don't just cling to him.
Talk to his friends, but don't hang around a lot with them.
If you feel that your friendship has gained depth, then propose to him.
It's better if you call him aside. Choose a place away from your classmates and friends.If he is a friend on your social networking site then you can tell him there that you want to meet him at this particular place and you have something important to tell.
Don't say it directly on his face, it might be awkward, say it like, 'i want to tell you something', then say that you like him.
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