Don't try to jump into dating her. Most girls in 5th grade hate boys who do that and will find you annoying and "girl-crazy." try to slowly approach her and give her the time she needs to appreciate you. Girls don't like people who don't respect them.
Get to know the things she likes. This creates an immediate connection with her. Most girls will get along with you a lot better when you understand their interests. Even something as simple as a favorite book or TV show can provide a great subject for conversation. The more you two get to know each other, the closer you will be.
Become her "BFF!"; "BFF" stands for "Best Friend Forever." Girls at this age normally will hang out with the same group of people at every chance they get, so it will give you two time to bond and maybe even get some alone time, but don't make it seem like you just want to be friends, otherwise she'll be baffled if you ask her out.
Be one of the "A-Guys," but don't be at the top! Girls LOVE to date these "A-Guys," and will find it easier to slip into their social group and it will allow them to slide up the social ladder. But try not to be the leader of them all! She may feel intimidated and avoid you.
Try to wear what's in-style. Girls at this age start to worry about what people wear. If you dress in an unclean way or wear out-of-style clothes, she may avoid having a relationship with you. Some girls do this to protect their social status. She will think that you can't afford clothes which are in style at the time and you are an outcast. If she is found hanging around with you, she will be scared about what others may think of her. Some brands to keep in mind are Aeropostale, Nike, Under Armour, Adidas, and Reebok. That's what's in style at my school. These brands look nice and cost a little but it's totally worth it for a girl.
Don't get too intimate, you guys are still young. Instead of rushing into things, wait a few years for your first kiss together. Keep things low-key for now, and go to dates at places such as the movie theater or park. Remember, you have many years to explore romance and dating.
Be a lady's man! In 5th grade, girls are competitive and love to try to get the guy everyone wants. And love even more to have a serious relationship with a guy who dates usually for a short term.
Don't rush anything. Girls hate people who rush. Just keep things nice and slow. Do what the lady wants, as the number above says.
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