How to Behave in Church (For Kids)

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Children can become bored and restless during a church service, but it is not usually welcome for them to misbehave or be restless while others are trying to pay attention and participate. Technically speaking, this does not apply to merely little children, but surprisingly, applies to most high school students, as well as some adults, especially if you have ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder).

Steps

Come to church prepared for the service. This means, at least for kids old enough to understand, to use the restroom, have a drink of water, and if appropriate, to eat a meal before entering the sanctuary, or not to chew gum during the service. Hungry or thirsty kids may have a hard time enduring the hour or longer service, and going to the bathroom can be a disruption for several people as you make your way between the pews or seats and down the aisles.

Keep reasonably still and quiet. For most church-goers, the service is a solemn event, and unwanted noise or movements can distract people.

Dress comfortably. If it is cold outdoors, wear a jacket that can be removed before you are seated so you are not hot and sweaty while you listen to the liturgy or message. For hot weather, especially with no air conditioning, avoid wearing formal attire like a suit jacket and tie unless it is required by your religious faith or beliefs.

Sit in an inconspicuous location. Sitting toward the back or at least near an aisle will decrease the distraction for others if your behavior does become a problem.

Listen quietly and pay attention to the service. If you are interested in the events going on, you will be less noisy.

Keep your hands to yourself. Don't tug at people sitting near you, or bother their belongings if they are within reach.

Find or bring a piece of paper to doodle or scribble on to keep yourself busy if you are unable to tolerate the desired behavior. You may need to bring a pen or pencil, as well, if there are none available. Never draw or write in the church's publications if they are found in the seats.

Participate as part of the group when the leader of the service asks the congregation to rise for prayer, singing, or other activities. Sing with the adults, if it is appropriate, but don't sing in too loud of voice if you are not familiar with the song, or you simply cannot carry a tune.

Look for alternatives if you just can't manage to behave for the service. Some churches have children's classes or groups to keep the kids busy while adults worship.